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Nine Years

On October 12, 2002, I wrote in my diary, “a new chapter in my life has begun.” That was the night of my first date with Len.

We had gone to a movie (Lilo and Stitch 🙂 ), and afterwards, I suggested we take a walk down to Spanish Banks. I vividly remember a few things from that walk. I remember the crisp, cool night air and clear night sky as we made our way down to the beach, hand in hand. I remember Len telling me about his wish to someday visit Cathedral Grove on Vancouver Island (which we did visit on our “mini-moon” to Tofino). I remember tripping over my own feet and only managed to not crash head first because I was holding onto Len’s hand. And I remember feeling pretty mortified but could not stop laughing. I guess you could say I took the whole “head over heels” thing rather literally. 😉

We finally shared our feelings for each other down at the beach while sitting on a rock by the water. A little fumbling, both a little shy, but so sweet. I wrote in my diary that “it was a magical night”. That very spot on the beach is also the place where Len proposed to me 5 years later.

Oh, and guess what Len uttered after our first kiss? (Those of you who were at our wedding might remember this little piece of trivia)
Was it:
a) “Whoa!”
b) “Holy smokes!”
c) “Not too bad, not too bad!”
d) he was speechless

If you guessed c, you’d be correct! Bwahaha! 😀 Oh, that goofy husband of mine!

It is hard to believe that was 9 years ago. What a wonderful adventure it’s been to explore the world and life, in all its joy and sorrow, together since then. So much fun, so much growth and learning, and so much love.

Happy Anniversary, dearest.


Posted by on October 12, 2011 in Adventures, Thoughts


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Dream Come True

Two years ago today, I married my best friend, the love and light of my life.

It was a day bathed in sunshine and infused with so, so much love. We celebrated our special day with all our closest friends and family, who shared an abundance of laughter and good times with us. When I think back to that magical day, I just want to smile and smile. I felt so much love in my heart, for everyone there, for everything beautiful and wonderful in the world, and especially for the man I was about to marry.

Here’s a look back at July 26, 2009 (all photos by Kevin Yu)…

Getting ready at home with family and my maid of honour, Kanata, was fun and relaxing:

(I love how random and candid this photo is!)

(In the weeks leading up to the wedding, I was obsessed with dozens upon dozens of lists in order to keep organized. Here I am checking my final list one final time before leaving for the chapel.)

Kevin was at our house photographing me while Len was getting ready with his family in Richmond, so unfortunately, we don’t have any photos documenting his morning. I learned later that the majority of his morning was spent rewriting his marriage vows. 😀

Len sent me a very sweet note to read just before the ceremony began:

I had been so calm and relaxed all day. Then the music began, Kanata gave me one last smile and started down the aisle, and I was left alone in the little bridal room to await my cue. That’s when the significance of the day washed over me and I started to lose it. Len and I had waited for so long for this day, and we had both journeyed so far (figuratively) to get to this point, and I was overcome with emotion. I thought about how much I had wanted Dad to be there, how happy he would be for us all. I thought about how incredibly blessed we were to have such an amazing, supportive, and loving group of friends and family around us that wanted only the very best for us. I thought about how long I had dreamed of this day, and how it was truly a dream come true for me to be marrying Len.

My mom said that she could feel me shaking as she took my arm to walk me down the aisle. Then I saw Len smiling at me, and all those thoughts melted together into sheer happiness.

In quintessential Len fashion, his marriage vows drew hearty laughter from our guests:

The ceremony remains one of the brightest highlights in a day full of light. It was everything we had dreamed of; it was simple and deeply heartfelt, and representative of what we live and love by. Special moments included the beautiful music played by our talented friends, Lauren and Ruth; the reading given by my long-time childhood friend, Ling; and the surprising and heartwarming moment when I realized that our minister had been moved to tears by our vows to each other.

And then almost before I knew it, we were married!

We were married at Minoru Chapel. The first time I laid eyes on it, I knew that it was the little white chapel of my dreams. It’s tiny, quaint, old-fashioned, and so softly romantic.

Then came the scorching heat and blazing sun outside where we met our guests. One of the reasons why I love Vancouver is its temperate climate, never getting either too hot or too cold. Until the week of our wedding, that is. It was insane. And in my heavy wedding dress, I was a ridiculous sweaty mess.

(There’s Ling!)

Did I mention it was hot??

My new family:

Mommy and me:

Brothers 😛 :

Best MOH ever:

And all our awesome family and friends:

We then jetted off (in our Buick Century with Len driving–what can I say, we wanted to be Len and Susan all the way 😛 ) to the Richmond Olympic Oval (site of the 2010 Winter Olympics) for photos…

And my dad was with me that day:

Since we had a western-style ceremony, we decided to have a traditional Chinese banquet for the reception. Lots of red coming up!

Lots of fun and hilarity ensued…

The evening was filled with so much laughter and amazing food. It was everything Len and I had hoped for and more.

As I write this, I can recall the memories, emotions, and thoughts of that day so readily that it’s hard to believe it was two years ago. And what I remember most vividly is how, at the end of the night, I was just so happy and content to be married to Len.

Happy Anniversary, my love!


Posted by on July 26, 2011 in Thoughts


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